I have been a disloyal blogger this few months (or maybe few weeks). Sorry.
See that headlines? Such a complex topic to be discussed by an unmarried lady. But i should give a try isn’t it?
None of a relationship is a waste of time? Agree? (Same here)..Try to recall your so called love stories, and you will find out that whoever Allah sent for you was a purpose for you to configure, customize and understand the idea of love and yourself. Its either to be loved or to be in loved. Nothing matters..but the important point here, how does this love made you matured/transform you into a good or bad person. Yes, you might have the sweetest love story but nothing beats the love story that Allah has wrote for you.
Remember dear, never compare your life like those in dramas/movies because the scripts were written by human and yours are written by Allah.
That’s deep. That’s Qada’ and Qadar. and That’s Taqdir.
Is there any true love? a big YES, the love that made of with foundation of love, wall of trust and understanding, roof of patient and forgiveness and pillar of deen.
A love that emerge, starts and ends with grace of Allah, flows in the path of Allah, grows and become stronger from day to day. And, the more you found imperfection inside your spouse, the more you’re in love with them because deep inside your heart you understand no one is perfect but Allah. There will be thunderstorms but bear in mind that never think of running away because that won’t change anything. Learn your partner, apologize immediately no matter who did wrong, and communicate to Allah whom creates your heart knows what’s the best for you. The more you hurts, the more Allah loves you. And be a grateful believers, always..Allah tests you because you are capable of it. He take away something from you because He emptied your hands for something better. Allah sees differently so, understand the way Allah wants you to see.
You may not know whether you dislikes something that are actually good for you while you likes something that are bad for you. And Allah knows while you not knows.
Thus, be grateful of what you have and believe that it is always the best for you. During downtimes, never questioned why it is happening to you because a believers won’t doubt their creator (Allah). A relationship won’t be a waste of time because Allah never design your life without a purpose onto it. If you sees in the way of Allah, you will understand that true love never lies within human. True love is between you and your creator (Allah).
Unbreakable. Perfect bonding. Never ending communications. No secrets. Vulnerable.
No hatred, just love..that will grow, and grow, continuously grow, won’t fade as long as you hold onto Him in every turns, paths, junctions in your life. He won’t leave you no matter how many times you forget Him. You won’t get hurt if you are sincere to your life and believe in takdir Allah. No one can accommodate you with this kind of relationship.
So, what a marriage will tell you..
Everything about Allah (if you sees the way Allah wants you to see)
Soon, both of you will respect this relationship (marriage) because, you fear of losing the love of Allah and strongly believe in what Allah has wrote for you. Besides that, marriage is a way Allah wants to upgrade your deeds, gives you bonus, rezeki and unconditional blessings. A wise man wont bear of losing these in their life (and so do I), thus make sure we are among them. Remember this! Marriage is not a trial-an-error relationship but a promise that kept between two worshippers towards their Creator (Allah).
Don’t get blinded by human loves as it drags you further from Allah. One that leaves Allah will someday leaves you. Find Allah, you will never be alone. Insya-Allah.