True love has no bullshits in it (but we hardly classify or define true love).
Build by trust and sincerity.
Showered with love and understanding.
Blessed by Allah n parents n kawan2.
Most importantly, it brings out the best of you and it makes you feel theres nothing else to look in others. Senang cerita wen u look at him, ur heart says ah! He’s the one.
The heart will greatly compromised with the brain. The heart will eventually leave everythg to God’s hand. Jadi or sik jadi, thats beyond our control. But the heart will always look on the positive sides of loving the person u love. Love hurts, yes, but loving made yr days more meaningful. Overthinking is normal. Thats how love grow. But again, let the brain and heart compromise. Its always better to have these two worked together.
Love dont cost u anything until a heartbreak. Until u found out how deep is yr love, haaa…time ya begegar dunia you you..I guess that breakup period (or frustration) is not a friendly behaviour to me. I tend to isolate myself for weeks, doing crazy thing (for instace, irit kawan doing crazy thing together, kesian the girls kdg2)😂😂, and shopping or makan tmpt mahal2 sesuka hati akal fikiran.thats nafs wokey (so blame the hormones n devils). Grrr
And we dont simply love a person witht judging and comparing. Whatever comparisons u did, keep it personal between u and Allah. Theres more of him/her are yet to be found. Jadi, initial judgment shud b at minimal unless u already know each other for a long time ya lain cerita hokeng. In fact, finding the right person shud be called as the terrible-intresting journey of life.
And lastly he is not yours until the akad. No matter who he is to everyone else, he is simply a baby guy tht drives u crazy crazy all the time and when u smiles a lot (alone) and also praying for him (personally i think this is the feeling u get when he is constantly in yr prayers). Theres nothing wrong with falling in love, but loving him/her in plenty wrong ways will turn it to bountiful of bullshits.agree?
Ok thats quite well done.
p/s: ok bye, he’s hot, im a chickpea, thus, love hurts.eheheh.